When a loved one moves into a Life Plan Community (often called a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC)) like Sierra Winds, families sometimes wonder how to stay just as connected as before. While the address may change, the bonds of family do not. With the right approach, distance can strengthen relationships rather than weaken them.
Here are some ways to remain close and supportive while living apart.
1) Make Communication a Routine
Consistent communication helps everyone feel grounded and connected. Whether it’s a weekly phone call, a standing video chat, or group texts with updates and photos, setting a routine makes it easier for both residents and family members to stay in touch.
Research shows that regular contact between older adults and their family members supports mental health and reduces feelings of isolation (National Institute on Aging). Even a short daily call or shared message can brighten someone’s day.
2) Share Milestones, Big and Small
Life events like birthdays, anniversaries, and graduations are natural times to gather. But don’t forget the smaller milestones too. Share a photo of a child’s artwork, a new recipe you tried, or an update from your day. These small glimpses into daily life create continuity and give loved ones conversation starters that feel personal.
3) Visit With Purpose
When possible, schedule visits in advance and plan activities your loved one will enjoy. That might mean attending a community concert together, joining them for a fitness class, or simply having lunch in the dining room with their friends.
A University of Michigan poll found that most older adults value visits where family participates in meaningful activities, not just casual drop-ins (University of Michigan National Poll on Healthy Aging, 2020). Taking part in their routines shows care and interest.
4) Use Technology Wisely
Technology has made staying connected easier than ever. From video calls to digital photo frames that update automatically, families can share life in real time. According to AARP, more than 80 percent of adults over 50 now use smartphones, making it simple to share photos, join video calls, and even play games together online (AARP Tech Trends Report).
Encourage your loved one to explore these tools, and if needed, take time to teach them step by step.
5) Balance Support With Independence
One of the greatest benefits of a CCRC is that residents enjoy independence while having access to support when they need it. Family members can respect that independence by offering encouragement and partnership rather than taking over.
Trusting in the services of a Life Plan Community provides reassurance that your loved one is well cared for, which allows your relationship to focus more on connection, memories, and joy.
6) Stay Involved in the Community
Many CCRCs, including Sierra Winds, welcome families to join resident activities and special events. Ask about open houses, holiday celebrations, or volunteer opportunities where you can engage with your loved one’s new community. Being part of their daily world strengthens both family ties and social connections.
The Bottom Line
Living apart doesn’t mean growing apart. By combining consistent communication, purposeful visits, smart use of technology, and participation in community life, families can remain deeply connected while loved ones thrive in a supportive, independent environment.
At Sierra Winds, we encourage family involvement every step of the way, creating a community where residents feel at home and families feel welcome.
Schedule a visit to learn more about how our Life Plan Community helps families stay close while living apart.